Carolyn Hax: A cautious, practical person contends with ‘tremendous wanderlust’

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Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) A cautious, practical person contends with 'tremendous wanderlust' Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: Maybe it's a reflection of being cooped up for so long, but I am feeling tremendous wanderlust. I want to live abroad, I want to learn French, I want to be an artist, I want to spend tons of time outdoors in the sun. I've lived an enjoyable, yet measured and cautious, life in my 28 years. Saved and planned and made practical decisions. The past year makes it feel moot — like living in the moment is the only way to live. The saving and planning and tedium seem silly when you only have one life and it's a very finite amount of time. Is this temporary coronavirus-induced insanity, or is this a glimmer of the truth that I've been too preoccupied to see? — Wanderlust Read Carolyn's Response     ADVERTISEMENT   Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. Her in-laws lavish attention on their daughter, to the exclusion of the other siblings Read more »   How to support a friend with cancer Read more »   Finding middle ground while policing movies and T.V. Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out A Better Week for a 7-day email course that will help you conquer your calendar, get more done and find time for the things you care about. Sign up »

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