Carolyn Hax: Dad struggles with wedding toast to ‘selfish’ and ‘ungrateful’ son

A dad is at a loss about what to say to his 'selfish' and 'ungrateful' son during his wedding toast. ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) Dad struggles with wedding toast to 'selfish' and 'ungrateful' son Hi, Carolyn: My son is getting married, and I'm expected to give a toast. I am struggling to say something nice about him. He's selfish, excessively frugal, and doesn't do for others except (thankfully) for his future wife. He is, in a word, ungrateful. I've tried to talk with him about his anger and depression but he won't discuss it. He's ruled therapy out. Do I just thank everyone for coming and wish the couple well in their future lives? That seems inadequate and impersonal. I'm at a loss. — Upset Dad Read Carolyn's Response     ADVERTISEMENT   Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. Facing doubts about the baby decision Read more »   If you want to draw line with mother-in-law, your husband should help Read more »   At 'speak now or forever hold your peace,' the groom might speak Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out Coronavirus Updates for news to help you stay safe and informed during the pandemic. Access to all stories in the newsletter is free. Sign up »

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