Carolyn Hax: Is it wrong to date someone when there’s ‘no chemistry’?

After two dates, they're having a good time and great conversation but the kissing lands with a "thud." ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) Is it wrong to date someone when there's 'no chemistry'? Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: I've been on two dates with a man who's a great fit for me — we share a lot of values, the conversation is great, and I enjoy our time together. We talk and text a lot (different work schedules) and I'm always excited to see his name pop up on my phone. But: there is no chemistry. The kiss at the end of the first date was like kissing my brother. The kiss at the end of the second date was marginally better. I'm looking forward to the third date because I like spending time with him so much — but I'm already dreading the kiss at the end. He's been clear that he is excited about me and seeing where this relationship goes. I feel like I'm misleading him at this point. I love spending time with him, but I'm not even sure I can stomach a third thud of a kiss. I've never had this problem, and I have no idea how to handle this. Any ideas? — No Chemistry Read Carolyn's Response     Read your responses to this week's reader question We asked readers to channel their inner Carolyn Hax and answer this question. ADVERTISEMENT   Should I warn my abusive ex's new girlfriend? Carolyn Hax readers give advice. Perspective ●  By Carolyn Hax ●  Read more »     Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. Mom should lower daughter's expectations for inattentive dad Read more »   Draw a hard line now with old friend's overzealous spouse Read more »   What not to do when Dad marries a virtual stranger Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out Lean & Fit for expert advice on how to eat right, get lean and stay fit, including curated healthy recipes every Wednesday. Sign up »

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