Carolyn Hax: The modern triangle — boyfriend, girlfriend, and the ex tattooed on his wrist

Your boyfriend and his ex-wife have been divorced for six years, but he still hasn't gotten rid of his tattoo of her name. ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) The modern triangle — boyfriend, girlfriend, and the ex tattooed on his wrist Dear Carolyn: My boyfriend of nine months has his ex-wife's name tattooed on his wrist. They have been divorced for six years. He says he despises her. I've mentioned the tattoo bothers me. He said he was going to get it removed and never did. I don't want to bring it up again, because I want to see if he will have it removed on his own. I almost feel as if he doesn't want to do it. It hurts my feelings because I think he still loves her. Should I address this with him again? Am I being petty? — Anonymous Read Carolyn's Response     ADVERTISEMENT   Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. A college student daughter who won't help out Read more »   Grandma picks the name 'Mama,' an identity with the crisis built-in Read more »   A mixed relationship and a mixed message Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out Bold School for smart advice on how to get better with age, plus tried-and-true tips from our readers, every Monday and Friday for 12 weeks. Sign up »

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