Carolyn Hax: The hot sauce is tearing them apart

A couple's lovingly cooked meals are drowned in hot sauce and pique. ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) The hot sauce is tearing them apart Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My partner and I shared a lot of meals over the past few months and the problem is basically this: nearly every meal involves hot sauce. On a side, as a garnish, slathering the main … hot sauce. Not only does it offend me to my core if I work hard to make an interesting, flavorful meal that is summarily drowned in hot sauce, but I also don't really like hot sauce. I don't like the smell, I don't care for the taste. In moderation, sure, but not as part of the essential fabric of my diet. Now, of course, my partner has turned it into a dichotomy of hot sauce/no hot sauce and I'm the reason hot sauce is not allowed. Can we not have a happy medium (or happy mild, as it were)? — Offended Read Carolyn's Response     ADVERTISEMENT   Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. Feeling unappreciated for carrying out late mother's wishes Read more »   Reader advice on illness, manners, weddings Read more »   Here a cluck, there a cluck, everywhere a cluck cluck Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out Bold School for smart advice on how to get better with age, plus tried-and-true tips from our readers, every Monday and Friday for 12 weeks. Sign up »

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