Carolyn Hax: A commitment-shy 30-year-old fears not living up to his parents’ example

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Sign up for this newsletter Read online Advice to help you tackle life's problems.     (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) A commitment-shy 30-year-old fears not living up to his parents' example Carolyn Hax is away. The following first appeared May 20 and June 22, 2007. Dear Carolyn: Thirty-year-old male. I'm scared of a lifelong commitment to someone. I guess I'm scared of falling short of the amazing job my parents did of raising me and my siblings and never being able to meet my own internal standards. It's not any pressure they're putting on me. I just feel I have a high bar to live up to, and I don't know if I have it in me to commit to someone else, to raise children, etc. I'm in a happy relationship now, but I'm scared of the future. — D.C. Read Carolyn's Response     ADVERTISEMENT   Want more? Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. More than a feeling — you've got to work at love Read more »   She's 35, rich, retired. Does that make her unethical? Read more »   She's tempted to dote on her only son, despite one big cautionary tale Read more »     We think you'll like this newsletter Check out A Better Week for a 7-day email course that will help you conquer your calendar, get more done and find time for the things you care about. Sign up »

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